Open your wallet, this is gonna cost you big!
After suffering a lost filling in a back tooth, I agreed to see Dazy's dentist, as she offered to pay. I am personal assistant and driver for "Dazy". I had a crown placed on the tooth and a deep cleaning. A bill of over $1,000 was presented. Dazy did only pay the first payment of nearly $500. She did not go with me to the next visit. Subsequent proposed dental work has been presented to me at $5,700. This is a cosmetic dentist and I believe is a very high priced dentist. Yes a very good dentist. I am not making a huge success here in Southern California.
I believe it is my ex-wife's goal to see me fail here miserably. She nor any of her family has ever offered to help me or my son except for the minimum amount of court ordered child support. We are determined to make it here.
Dazy has helped me and my son in many ways since I first met her on a rainy day outside of Trader Joe's in December of 2015.
Dazy is a paranoid, schizophrenic, she has OCD and is bi-polar (I believe) , she is not moving out of her apartment and in fact will not move from the top step of her apartment steps. She has hired a crew of inept and unprofessional neighbors and their children to help with her move.
She has paid them thousands of dollars. Very few things have been moved to her new apartment, and in a state of depression, that I have seen last as long as 8 weeks, she will not likely get any further moving done.
I have not been seeing her or bringing her coffee, or food. She will not eat or bathe or do anything other than sit at the top of her stairs.
I told her I would not be there for her to be abused verbally. She has in the past agreed to my charge of $40 per hour for yelling and abusive language. Regular rate is $20 per hour for personal assistance and driving.
She seems to gain some pleasure in attacking me verbally and telling me "You are interrupting me!, I hate being interrupted!" As usual I left, I returned 2 days later to find her at the top of her stairs in a depressed state.
My last visit to her apartment, still in a depressed state, I brought her coffee and crackers , she refused them and did not offer for me to sit with her, as she has done in the past depressive periods. I told her I would not be coming back, as I walked away.
She needs professional help not only with her move but professional psychotherapy is something she has not had since I have known her. She said she has a "shrink" that has helped her "get relieved of serving jury duty".
I am left with a huge dental bill, I have paid some of it and it has left me short on my bills.
Here is her apartment as has been for the 2 years I have known her.
The 2 bottom photos are from last week. She will need to pay rent on 2 apartments for a 4th month soon. She pays for 2 storage units.
Divorced, Custodial Father of a 10 year old ASD son. Professional Assistant and Driver. Health and Fitness advocate. Vegan, Humanist, Democratic Socialist, Originally from Charleston, S.C. and Savannah, GA. My son and I Moved to LA County in July 2012 from a life in Fort Worth, Texas for 20 years.